Most of the people around your life, if not all, are living in some level of a survival mentality. The flight, fight and freeze syndrome. That means they are emitting low levels of negative energy that are shrouded in resistance.
That resistance keeps people living in their heads 95% or more of their day. With only approx. 5% in their heart. This causes a cut off to the flow of the field of magnetism that the heart produces when a person is living in and through their heart. So with only 5% magnetic and 95% analytic resistance, most of what we do is egoic sweat and toil. Hard work and struggle being the outcome.
The remedy? Recognize and catch yourself thinking thoughts of survival, cast them down and allow surrender to keep you living in your heart. Yes, it takes practice, but once there’s enough positive “heart-equity” built up, magnetism will begin to bring things to you consistently.
This whole “process” my friend is called, “All these things will be added to you”. Christ lived it when he walked in his own human skin and he desires to do the same in yours.